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‘Boy Erased’ steps up battle against gay conversion therapy

  • Published at 11:43 pm November 2nd, 2018
Nicole Kidman
Nicole Kidman arrives for the premiere of the movie ‘Boy Erased’ at the Toronto International Film Festival on September 11 Reuters

But it was only after watching “Boy Erased,” the movie version of his own story, that what happened to him fully came home

It’s been 14 years since Garrard Conley, the gay son of an Arkansas Baptist preacher, was sent to conversion therapy and two years since he published a memoir about what he calls the “psychological torture” he endured there.

But it was only after watching “Boy Erased,” the movie version of his own story, that what happened to him fully came home.

“With memoir and writing, you are able to create some padding around the experience. But on film you can’t hide anything,” Conley said.

“I was able to have some distance from it and to see myself and think ‘Oh, I didn’t do anything wrong.’ I submitted to conversion therapy under duress - I was going to lose my family, the God that I knew, and the community. When you see it enacted on screen it makes it a little bit clearer,” he said.

“Boy Erased,” opening in US movie theaters yesterday, stars Lucas Hedges as Conley, with Nicole Kidman and Russell Crowe playing his parents.

It dramatizes then 19 year-old Conley’s stay at a “Love in Action” religious fundamentalist centre in 2004 where gay men and women were beaten with bibles by family members, drilled in “manly” sports, and told their same-sex attraction was linked to alcoholism and gambling in their families.

Some 700,000 Americans have been forced to undergo a form of conversion therapy, according to the Williams Institute at the University of California, Los Angeles. Some 36 US states still allow the practice.

Conley hopes the film will serve both as an act of solidarity to those who have gone through such programs and to help end them.

He has helped set up a website, with the backing of LGBT groups, and a podcast series, “Unerased,” that takes a comprehensive look at the history of gay conversion therapy through the stories of those who have gone through it, their parents, and some of those who used to administer.

One of them is former “Love in Action” director John Smid, who resigned from the organization in 2008, later married his gay partner, and who has apologized publicly.

“I am happy to see John doing the right stuff, and it is important for him and people like him to say, ‘This never worked’,” Conley said.